You are the DAD! (Or other parent!) You are as much part of this baby as your partner. Don’t forget that. If you have a wife/girlfriend who is breast feeding, yes, the baby will be all over them for forever. Your time to shine is any other time they aren’t on the boob. Read books, go for walks, enjoy the baby stage and then the infant stage and the horribleness that is the 2 and 3’s! You have so much influence over your child. People should enjoy the early stages (I saw that fully aware that I have struggled during this phase)….Just go to work, drive home, eat dinner, do books, watch tv, play with blocks do whatever you and the kid can do together. You can make it fun. I mean, you already have zero time for yourself anyways….might has well make your kid more like you.